Negative impacts for spouses and other family members can include:

Financial crisis
a huge financial burden is often put on the family members, sometimes leading to ongoing debt and property loss

Being manipulated
into lending money to the person with a gambling problem

Lying
covering up and making excuses for the gambler's behaviour

Mental and emotional health problems
such as high levels of anxiety, depression, sadness, anger, resentment, embarrassment, exhaustion and self-doubt

Physical health problems
insomnia, ulcers, digestive problems, headaches, neck and back pain and other stress-related health conditions

Self-esteem problems
such as feelings of helplessness, being overwhelmed, insecurity and even feeling as though they are responsible for the gambling problem

Relationship problems:
Role imbalance - such as children taking care of the parents, parents overprotecting their children, partners performing all of the household tasks that were previously shared and a lack of sexual and emotional intimacy between partners

Verbal and physical abuse - which can lead to arguments, strained relationships, alienation, separation, divorce, loneliness and isolation

Poor self-care - sometimes family members are so focused on the person with a gambling problem, they may neglect themselves and their own needs


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